I had a favourite uncle, a man of stature and principle.

Some time after his death I offered to clean out his garage for my aunt. This was a big job and she was grateful for the assistance. My DIY Uncle could say of his garage, “My Space, My Things, My World”. This was the place where “He” lived.

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My Space, my Things, my World. They define who we are and are a critical part of our Legacy – a connection point that is critical in building families.

My Space . . .

I packed my trailer full of hand tools and sometime later my Uncle’s world joined my own.  I re-arranged my garage to absorb the influx of bits and bobs; some of his tools were 100 years old and bore names that no-one could remember. Now it is “our” garage, a shared space, a place of peace and sanctuary where I go to re-new, re-create and re-charge my batteries – it is My Space but now it is shared with someone I respected through the items that he used during his lifetime. This is a critical part of family building and leaving a legacy.

Our throw-away society challenges all this – the things that people use are transitory, expendable, temporary and up-gradable. Electronic gadgets and wizardry offer functionally but they do not offer permanence. Fifty years from now a Kindle Bible is space-junk whereas my 35 year old NIV Bible, underlined and full of notes offers a connection to Me, My Space, My Thoughts and My World.

Our modern culture is intent upon destroying the Legacy we leave behind. Portraits and photos, once a definitive part of a family’s heritage are now somewhere “in the cloud”. Diaries and journals that gave insight into another person’s world are now digital-dust on a blogging platform. Favourite songs once playable on disk are now lost on a terabyte hard drive.

We need to take a 100 steps backwards from noise and quantity and again focus on Permanence, Sustainability and Quality. This is not about consumerism and materialism – it’s about Legacy and Connection.

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INDIO, CA – MAY 05: Musician Willie Nelson performs onstage during the Stagecoach Music Festival held at the Empire Polo Field on May 5, 2007 in Indio, California. (Photo by Frazer Harrison/Getty Images)

In 1969 Willie Nelson bought a Martin classical guitar which he called Trigger, (shown above) which he continues to play. It is part of his Space and his World – it is a Connection point, it is part of his Legacy and it offers permanence because Quality was part of the initial transaction.